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The disparity is disturbing. Lack of effort? I think so...
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The disparity is disturbing. Lack of effort? I think so... Headed into town today and was reminded why I make it a point to not want to head into town😝. It’s hot AF, crowded and just....too friggin frantic for my liking. (Then again, I haven’t had the best of weeks so.... acting like an cranky fart. And yes, very much aware of that) Anyhow, running through what I need to do in town and one thing I’ve noticed is how in some couples, particularly the ones that are have been dating for awhile but not long, and ones where the guys are older than the girls. I hate to stereotype and I KNOW generalising here, but the females look like they bothered putting something nice on, and the males just simply, don’t. not saying one is more attractive than the other although sometimes that’s the case, but it really appears like the males, or those males, just can’t simply care about being presentable. Like really? I know it’s got nothing to do with me but I found myself getting irritated and agitated by it😊 A couple just walked past and the lady was in a nice dress, and the guy was in a tshirt that didn’t fit and shorts that look like they belong in a bedroom. Like come on! A lil effort pls...? I know I know...none of my business. For all I know she might like em sloppy....?😳. being a real cranky puss. Rant over. Gonna continue skulking on my own. Hope your weekend went well. If you must know (I know you don’t, but gonna tell you anyway🤪), mine sucked. Not in any good way. Sucked in a not-satisfying way. Boo! |
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See!! This is what happens when you don’t get laid! Wait a minute...scratch that. This is what happens when it’s not satisfying! Anyhow. Thanks for reading! 😊
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Yeah I've seen that before - looks like the guy hasn't made an effort at all. I wonder if in some cases it's down to the "This will do" mentality where the guy doesn't like clothes shopping so puts anything on to make himself look presentable in public. Or maybe it's where the guy feels he's got his "catch" and doesn't need to make the effort any more in how he presents himself.
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Hmmm........Cranky indeed !!! Maybe you should write about that unsatisfactory sexual encounter you had, and why it was so? Not knowing what you mean by "in town" in Bali, i'm assuming that the couples you are referring to are on holiday? Myself I quite often see couples in Bali where I think that the lady is Way Overdressed for the occasion/location........perhaps this really is a Male/Female perception thing and I would be that "sloppy male" 
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I've been complaining about that very same thing for years now, as it applies to the swingers here. The ladies will make the effort to look sexy and attractive at the club or meet & greet but most of their men look like they climbed off their lawn mower, washed their hands (maybe) and showed up still in their sweat-stained tee shirt & cargo shorts! 
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It's actually interesting to read this from your point of view. My oldest and dearest friend has always said the same thing about married woman. "Why once they are married does it seem like they quit making an effort in their looks" I would venture to guess, the answers come down to style, wardrobe, and/or venue. For instance I'm more comfortable in my shorts and a tee. I'll wear that out anywhere. Jean's if it's cold (but nice non holy). I do have a couple nice shirts to wear for a venue that requires more dressy, and I like my Hawaiian shirts  of course my wife likes to twirl in a dress, so she will wear one any chance she gets. Just the thoughts of an old codger
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Older guy and younger girl..hmmm let me think.. could it be because maybe she's not with him for his looks but more for his MONEY? 
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Yeah I've seen that before - looks like the guy hasn't made an effort at all. I wonder if in some cases it's down to the "This will do" mentality where the guy doesn't like clothes shopping so puts anything on to make himself look presentable in public. Or maybe it's where the guy feels he's got his "catch" and doesn't need to make the effort any more in how he presents himself.  Thanks for stopping by 
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That is actually a pretty darn good point. Thanks for that
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Hmmm........Cranky indeed !!! Maybe you should write about that unsatisfactory sexual encounter you had, and why it was so? Not knowing what you mean by "in town" in Bali, i'm assuming that the couples you are referring to are on holiday? Myself I quite often see couples in Bali where I think that the lady is Way Overdressed for the occasion/location........perhaps this really is a Male/Female perception thing and I would be that "sloppy male" I know what you mean, and that's an entirely different issue. I've seen those inappropriately overdressed ones. Like heels to the beach.  But this is a separate thing. I think they're similar in appropriateness. But that in itself is also a matter of perception. Hmm...
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I've been complaining about that very same thing for years now, as it applies to the swingers here. The ladies will make the effort to look sexy and attractive at the club or meet & greet but most of their men look like they climbed off their lawn mower, washed their hands (maybe) and showed up still in their sweat-stained tee shirt & cargo shorts! Show up for meet & greet like that and expect some action? No...no no. Thanks for chipping in
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It's actually interesting to read this from your point of view. My oldest and dearest friend has always said the same thing about married woman. "Why once they are married does it seem like they quit making an effort in their looks" I would venture to guess, the answers come down to style, wardrobe, and/or venue. For instance I'm more comfortable in my shorts and a tee. I'll wear that out anywhere. Jean's if it's cold (but nice non holy). I do have a couple nice shirts to wear for a venue that requires more dressy, and I like my Hawaiian shirts of course my wife likes to twirl in a dress, so she will wear one any chance she gets. Just the thoughts of an old codger Thanks for stopping by
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Older guy and younger girl..hmmm let me think.. could it be because maybe she's not with him for his looks but more for his MONEY? Anyhoo..thanks for stopping by
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When we're just out on errands, both of us are likely to just dress for comfort. (Some of my clothes are pretty worn, but they still look good.) But when we're going somewhere like a date night, we typically dress up, and we both look pretty good. I'm somewhat older than she is. She says she married me for my oral talents. We're both OK in terms of money.
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