Single men in swinging, or why we don’t want your attention
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Posted:Dec 20, 2014 11:18 am
Last Updated:Aug 21, 2019 4:12 pm
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Single men in swinging seem to fall into a few recognizable groups.
A. Player wannabes, who hope to score an occasional lay. Usually viewed as losers…
B. Bulls, who are looking for the cuckold couples. This is a kink, and you’re welcome to it. Not our cup of tea and would not enjoy even knowing anyone who thought like this. To each his own.
C. Single men who were in a swinging couple but lost their partner, by breakup or other causes. These guys tend to understand that they are not as welcome as they once were and respect the people they know in the lifestyle enough to not crowd in on them. They are actually more likely to be welcome because of that respect. I don’t have an aversion to an extra guy at a party if he is one of these, and she would love the attention. The key is that we already knew them before.
D. The serious players, out to score at any cost. They will lie, cheat, steal, whatever it takes to get a piece. Like a travelling salesman, always looking for the lonely, or bored, or frustrated or whatever, lady to manipulate, use and then drop if it gets serious. A lady friend in every town, all thinking they just might keep him, not knowing that he is just using them. My response to this type would be to ask them if they are faster than a speeding bullet, and offer them a chance to demonstrate it. I have no use for assholes! Some bulls may fit this category as well.
I know that there are couples that like to add a man or two for their enjoyment because they like gangbangs or are Bi. That requires that they screen to keep out undesirables and guys who would chip away at their relationship. Okay for them, but we aren’t into that.
Many men in swinging love to watch their ladies in action having fun. I’m cool with that, but again discretion in choices is mandatory. That’s why most stick to couples, and then they get to have fun too.
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Single moms and swinger gatherings
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Posted:Nov 3, 2013 8:32 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2019 9:37 am
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Attending swing groups gatherings and other swing activities is the safest dating forum for single mothers as well as single ladies who don't want to be tied down.
The one rule all swinger groups adhere to is "no means no!" A single woman can't count on that anywhere else.
Safe sex is practiced by almost all swingers. You are less likely to catch something unpleasant.
No jealousy, possessiveness, or control freaks. That just doesn't work in swinging. Well, unless you have that as a fantasy..
If you find someone you want to play with, you probably can. It seems that many if not the majority of ladies in swinging are bi, bi-friendly, or at least comfortable with some contact.
If you fantasize about a bi encounter, and about a third of women do, you can explore this with folks who will help you enjoy it.
The men involved in swinging take sex seriously and develop better skills in bed. Older men have had lots of time to learn. Don't turn down an otherwise attractive offer just because of his age... And Viagra is a man's best friend.
You won't have to worry about a predator sucking up to you to get at your . That's a sad fact out there that single moms need to think about. I have heard too many abuse stories that start that way.
The only drawback is that you won't have much luck finding a permanent partner. However, that isn't always the best choice for many single moms, especially if the first partner was a bad one. It may be you will find out that there are good ones out there, and how to spot them.
Enjoy life!
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Bi-what?
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Posted:May 13, 2010 4:09 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2019 9:38 am
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Seems like there needs to be a bit more definition, from what I have seen.
Straight... Not interested/put off by any same sex contact.
Bi-curious... Never tried it but sounds interesting.
Bi-comfortable.. Not interested in play but not jumpy about incidental contact. (bare minimum for MFM and FMF)
Bi-friendly.. Likes receiving, not interested in returning, but doesn't care about the gender of the person giving. Could include fondling and kissing between ladies short of oral sex. I see a lot of "bi" ladies like that.
And last but not least, Bi-sexual... doesn't care what gender, time to play.
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