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CedarsPrince 44M
1608 posts
3/28/2018 6:13 pm

This place can be surprising.

You try to find someone..and get bupkis

You stop looking and suddenly someone show interest.

Don't throw in the towel and just keep having fun


OldrHarleyGuy 72M

3/28/2018 6:15 pm

Am with you about all of that, gave it up a long time back.


benard69 66M/66F  

3/28/2018 6:18 pm

Would assume that was your original intent and not just a new thought...So many on here that use the site the way you do...Have fun


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
3/28/2018 6:22 pm

You know I have been here a long time and although I'm not looking for anything anymore. I really did take the time to get to know people here, as many don't and that's why they can't find anything here. And honestly I didn't look I let them find me. When you stop the search is usually when something amazing happens.

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
3/28/2018 6:53 pm

Gave up long ago. Not meeting anyway but if change my mind it will not be from this site. Any doms who have showed interest are wanna bes. I am honest about not a real submissive. They are not about playing a dom.. I will meet from a kink site not a sister site of this one. Betting you get hate mail or comments about being here but not meeting. I do. They are pissed off boys who we probably wouldn't want anyway. Not going to meet somebody not what I want just to meet. Nobody should. Some men don't get that. After all it's a sex site. To them it means fuck anybody and everybody who is interested. Ummm no.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


banjo6660 57M
615 posts
3/28/2018 8:29 pm

honestly why does it matter, everyone is here for different reasons. All you can do is just keep trying.


crownie62 62M

3/28/2018 8:56 pm

I say you gotta keep on tryin, it could be right around the corner......
you throw in the towel, you will never know!!!


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
3/28/2018 11:05 pm

I guess I'm a rare case here. I came looking for lovers, and found love... not once, but twice. Short lived... but I loved.

Thoughts from the Garden...


lyavu 50F
1538 posts
3/28/2018 11:12 pm

Patience pays and also do not settle


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
3/29/2018 1:22 am

Joined many years ago with very low expectations. And they were met.

Stayed for the blogging and "Well, you never know what might happen". Have made a couple of friends over the years and found the chat rooms a half decent way to pass some time, but even they are pretty much dead now.

So when I get no blog readers any more, or I've run out of things to blog about, I'll throw in the towel. Unless the site folds before then.

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


me_lonely37 54M

3/29/2018 10:05 am

I feel the same way, just havent found another site, good like in you search.


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
3/29/2018 5:08 pm

    Quoting DTFsomuchfun:
    It’s annoying when people are here for something other than sex. I don’t get it.
Says the dude using a picture from a romance novel ad as his profile picture.... Rough and Rugged 3? Really?



I'm with you baby girl, trolling the trolls can be entertaining sometimes!


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
3/29/2018 6:56 pm

I'm not looking for anything from this site...I'm simply here for the entertainment of viewing profiles, reading the blogs and responding occasionally if interested in the topic.

IF something or someone should come along, then maybe it would be considered, but it's not a big deal one way or the other.

Depends on my mood if I answer the "why are you here", "why do you waste everyone's time if you're not looking" etc emails. Many they just get deleted....lol

Good post...thanks

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


discreteSteve62 50M
2169 posts
3/30/2018 4:13 pm

    Quoting  :

Wow, we're not the only ones! We've looked for suitable watch-and-be-watched couples on the sadly departed Craigslist personals too (results below). That's pretty much all we're interested in, though in the absurdly unlikely event that she were to find a woman to her taste who is actually interested in both of us (even less likely than the usual, since her taste in women leans butch, which tends to mean not interested in men) we might try that.

Anyway, our luck with watch-and-be-watched was not great, but we weren't all that persistent.

We got as far as a meet-and-greet with one couple. The conversation kept drifting off topic. After a really long time, my wife finally figured out why the conversation went so slowly: the woman in other couple just wasn't interested in anything involving another couple, even watch-and-be-watched with a couple that she seemed otherwise OK with. If the husband in the other couple hadn't stepped away for a pee break, the other woman may not have had the guts to answer when my wife asked whether that was the problem. Much time wasted.

In the other occasion, the couple was quite eager, but we eventually got the impression that they were interested in the watch-and-be-watched as a stepping stone toward full swap. We weren't interested in full swap, and even if we were we didn't get the impression from our communications that they'd be our types for that. We planned a meet-and-greet, but they texted us about a complication, and proposed rescheduling. Their text was close enough to the planned meeting time that we were already there. That gave us an excuse to back out, rather than have an uncomfortable meet-and-greet where they might try to up-sell us to full swap.


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
3/30/2018 4:48 pm

Ach McPapster, I lost my expectations of this place a long time since, and so if anything nice pops up in the romantic/sensual sense, well, it is a bonus.

Alongside that, blogging/interacting with the numpties here, the guid yins mind, is what keeps me from giving up.

I wish for you, coz ye're a canny guid discerning and intelligent lass, that ye'd find the better sides of this place, but I guess the ability to separate the wheat from the chaff has diminished somewhat.

In the meantime, if some prat behaves like a prat, tell him I'll be happy to show him my hairy sweaty spotty cheesy scottish arse!!


wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
4/2/2018 11:42 am

i blog i'm not expecting to find much else here. and maybe because of that I've met some lovely people here ( male nd female). so, maybe it's a question of altering the way in which you approach the site.

if you think you're going to find your husband, you're likely in the wrong place. but tbh, i know a couple of people who have so it's not impossible. if you're looking for D&D, it's not bad. and i'd wager it's about the same as most sites when it comes no pun intended to customer satisfaction.

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


missthee 58F  
4511 posts
4/13/2018 1:42 pm

I too feel conflicted, because I am not actively searching. And yet here I still am.


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