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Getting Laid is an Art Form.  

JimmyB7474 59M
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10/17/2018 10:05 am
Getting Laid is an Art Form.

Yes it must be tiresome getting hit on by horny men, but, what you may not know, simply asking for a "row in the hay" has a 1 in 8 chance of getting a yes. BUT...If you have an agenda of ONLY WANTING SEX, most girls you talk to that evening will sense it and feel that you want something from them . . . And they will be right because you DO!

Now, to be fair – there’s nothing wrong with having a goal like that. Because quite often, the direct approach works very well, especially in clubs and other loud venues if you know what you’re doing and are very congruent with it.

So when you only have one single goal of getting laid in mind when you’re at a party – you close yourself off to having any sort of meaningful interactions with other people. You don’t offer “the full experience” to any girl that you meet, and as a result, you do not get laid.

And then you want to know how to get laid at a party because no one seems to be interested in going home with you . . . Well, now;s the part where I tell you how to do this the correct way.

Just remember, if you interact with women to achieve an objective rather than just to enjoy the process – you’ll only rarely get laid because you won’t be offering her the full experience that is you. The second you start trying to get laid, neglecting everything else, you doom yourself to fail.

“Hey, you look lovely today, so I came over to talk to you and see if you’re also a great person and not just a pretty face . . . I’m Jimmy, and you are?”

That way, you’ll be approaching beautiful women at the party because you want to see if they’re actually a decent person or not. And not because you instantly want to fuck them due to their looks alone. And guess what? The girls will notice that you have STANDARDS – that you won’t sleep with just any attractive woman at the drop of a dime. They will see that you are not desperate, that you aren’t simply out to get laid like most guys are. They’ll realize that you actually CARE to see who THEY are before putting YOUR dick inside them.

That’s one of the keys of how to get laid at a party and do it on a consistent basis. In fact, it’s one of the keys to being successful with women in general; treating women like PEOPLE and not OBJECTS.

Works 1 in 8 times. The other key is to keep trying till you find that 1 in 8.

Jimmy B.
My blog JimmyB7474 is called Into The Woods (erotica) entertaining stories about a guy named Jimmy. Enjoy.
JimmyB7474 59M

10/17/2018 11:56 am
    Quoting redrockrascal:
    Being subtle a.k.a respectful but honest tends to work. But no one thing / line will work every time for every woman. Also, having a fairly narrow goal (just getting laid) lessens the probabilities. Having a wider goal like a regular partner for sex or even more opens up more probabilities.
I couldn't agree more. Thanks redrockrascal. The 'Other Key" thing to remember is to be flexible and think before you speak while you have your conversation, Cuts down on the face slaps. Jimmy B.
My blog JimmyB7474 is called Into The Woods (erotica) entertaining stories about a guy named Jimmy. Enjoy.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
10/17/2018 11:43 am

 Being subtle a.k.a respectful but honest tends to work. But no one thing / line will work every time for every woman. Also, having a fairly narrow goal (just getting laid) lessens the probabilities. Having a wider goal like a regular partner for sex or even more opens up more probabilities.
When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


JimmyB7474 59M

10/17/2018 10:29 am
    Quoting RavenGB:
    And how long does it take to get your nose re-set the other 7/8 times?
Ah, if I only had a dollar for each time I've been slapped.......
My blog JimmyB7474 is called Into The Woods (erotica) entertaining stories about a guy named Jimmy. Enjoy.


RavenGB 63M
1430 posts
10/17/2018 10:25 am

 And how long does it take to get your nose re-set the other 7/8 times?


JimmyB7474 59M

10/17/2018 10:06 am

 Anyone else have a tip for getting laid?
My blog JimmyB7474 is called Into The Woods (erotica) entertaining stories about a guy named Jimmy. Enjoy.


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