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Curious...  

MissDReid 36F
0 posts
11/8/2017 10:07 pm
Curious...


I have been thinking... (oh Jesus, run now)

I was exploring some blogs and some comments on them earlier. One particular blogger's comments stood out repeatedly. Not for good reasons either. They stood out because this person seems bitter and unhappy.

I just kept thinking about it, since it seemed off to me that you'd be bitter on a sex site. I don't think most people care, nor would they want you to try to bring them down with you...

But also, this is a sex site. If the site is working, you definitely shouldn't feel bitter. The sex should help with that.

Then again, maybe this person isn't getting any...

But, this is me thinking too much while I'm tired, so that could also explain it. Hehe.

Anyway. If you're having a bad day, you just let me know and we'll figure out how to make it better!

bull_in_florida 65M
966 posts
11/8/2017 10:16 pm

LOL you're over thinking it!

I never have a bad day, but you can always make a great day... awesome!


rachel0718 58F
20470 posts
11/8/2017 10:27 pm

It’s too bad that Someone likes to spread their negativity around. It’s great that you see it but it’s also very sad. I guess they feel they have to go let everyone know how miserable they are to make themselves feel better. You’re not the only one that notices I’m glad you said something. It put a smile on my face that’s for sure. 😁


Rachel Mae


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
11/8/2017 10:28 pm

Not a bad day but busy.

What would make me feel better is to......







ismaithliom56 67M
411 posts
11/8/2017 11:18 pm

I bet you do have ways!


usemeplease8162 61M
2 posts
11/9/2017 12:37 am

if you don't mind older guy I love licking pussy and ass if very wet or squirt I be into you for as long you want


whoisagentj 54M
6060 posts
11/9/2017 10:36 am

I have to admit, in the past, toward the end of my time when I was last here, my blogs got negative. That's when I knew it was time for a break and to leave the site for a while.
But here's the thing. I've always maintained that my blog should be strictly for me. If I want to be entertaining, I will. If I need to get some clarity and advice, I'll ask for it. If I need to vent some serious anger on my blog, I'll do that too. I'd rather my blog be about my real emotions than just some fake plastic shit I see from others. I'm not here to entertain and dance like a monkey for others. If they want to read my blog, cool. If they don't, also cool, no sweat of my balls.

But that being said...when you find you're posting nothing but negativity, and you can see that, that's when you need to stop, take a break, walk away from it, and focus on fixing yourself. That's what I had to do. Oh sure, dating, finding women (or men), finding a relationship, that can be frustrating when it seems everyone here looks to be having sex and you aren't getting any. It's like a pressure to perform or compete with others here. We all can't be happy. We all can't be getting laid. There are dry spells where you have no one and are lonely, family members who pass on and it effects you emotionally. It's a lot of bad stuff. But you gotta keep fighting through it, like riding though peaks and valleys.

Eh, am I talking too much? I need to get laid. LOL!

Who can you call on to save the day?

Why none other than...


Agent


ULIXBIG 69M
9288 posts
11/9/2017 11:43 am

Hi, it's Jesus here. I am running ...

Negativity is best dealt with by being positive! Sometimes negative things need to be pointed out and said, but then it's time to move on and celebrate life ...


whoisagentj 54M
6060 posts
11/9/2017 3:39 pm

[quote]Dry spells? What's that?

I kid!

I just think being miserable and tearing others down may be a kink for some.[/quote]

Yeah, you my dear will never have to suffer a dry spell. I on the other have to walk the Gobi desert to get a whiff of rain.
Of course you being married helps a lot. Lonely old me will have to suffer. *sniff*

And while that might be a possibility, I think that it's more likely not a kink and more people can be miserable human beings and wither you ignore them trying to drag you down or you work to help them get back up, if they want the help. And if they don't want help, there is not much else to do but let them be negative.

Who can you call on to save the day?

Why none other than...


Agent


lyavu 50F
1538 posts
11/11/2017 9:39 pm

Ya it also happens to some guys when there horny omg the things they say to u when ur not interested in them . I will keep those to my self. I will say this name calling is one .


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