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Posted:Jan 19, 2018 12:23 pm
Last Updated:Mar 8, 2018 3:12 pm


Okay, so I am a bit more open minded than a lot of women. I am not going to hide behind the outdated belief that women do not like sex. Most, if not all women like sex. Difference is that we like it to involve much more than vanilla penetration. Our whole body matters as well as our minds. We are all different and there is no instruction manual. Here's mine though:

I like sex to be somewhat intense. I am NOT talking about pain… I just really like my limits pushed/tested. I love every part of my body being rubbed, squeezed, fondled. Stimulate my mind by telling me what you are going to do and what I am doing to you. Suck my breasts hard enough to make my nipples numb. Squeeze and spank my ass until my cheeks turn red. Suck and rub my clit until my mind turns to jello. I like my body teased until I am begging you for more.

The more I am teased, the more I will want you ravage my body, and the hotter and more intense I get. Playing with my ass makes me incredibly hot. I love being spanked, rubbing, fingers, toys… If you don’t, I’ll do it myself; especially if you tell me to. If you know what you are doing, there is a good chance you will get to do more than with it. But, you have to be able to articulate that you know what you are doing.

I am a bit forward, and have no problem getting things started, but I do like to hand control over to the guy at some point. When I ask you what you are looking for, responding with "whatever" or "anything", then you are telling me that you do not know what you want. I don't mind pushing you toward my goals, but give me a goal to help me ensure you will leave my side totally spent and with a "WOW, she was hot" the next morning.

I absolutely, unquestionably, 100%, LOVE giving head. I especially like being down on my knees, with the guy standing over me, slap me with it, feed it to me while you tell me how you want it. I don't swallow, cum does not taste very good. If you are not comfortable with me making out with you after you cum, I suggest letting it go on my breasts.

Once you do finish, we are NOT finished. Let me get you up again… we are NOT done until we are both exhausted and you are no longer able to get it up.

Yeah, so I am rather wild in bed. That is why I am on this site. I am not looking to JUST be fucked. So, if you are here just to get a quick nut, I am NOT for you. I am going to ravage your cock, I am going to let you get rougher (again, NOT painfully) with me than you normally would. I expect you to ravage my body. Make me beg you to keep going; seduce every inch of my body until I am begging for all you got.

Here’s the catch… I love watching myself having sex.… So, let’s video it so I can watch over and over again. I promise I will not show anything that would identify you to others unless you specify otherwise, and I will give you a copy of our video with the understanding that you will not show my face on the internet. I am married, and my husband will be the filming us. He is totally straight and will NOT be participating in any way, due to an injury.

I do not have any hair on my body below my ears, and keep myself immaculately clean. You will love how soft and tender my thighs are… I do 😉

*Oh, and if you are a female, I will do everything you want me to and you are welcome to do as you wish (within reason). If you are part of a couple, I will let your husband do anything you let him do or you tell me to do to him.


* Your profile is complete. Guys outnumber women 100:1 on this site. If you have nothing to say about yourself and are afraid to put more than just a dick pic on your profile... well, think of it as shopping for something you can't see and has no description... would you buy it?

*You are not here to have sex with anybody, anywhere, anytime.

*You need to be clean, very clean. No diseases.

*Not overly hairy. If you have a hairy cock, you must at least trim it back. Hair in my face and teeth is just not my thing. If your balls are shaved… watch out; you will not be getting any rest.

*There is a such thing as being overly bulky/muscular. Whereas it isn’t a deal-breaker, I prefer thinner guys.

*I am 5’6” tall, be taller than me. Taller the better; I need you to be able to feel your hands roaming my body regardless of the position we are in (I like riding).

*You are younger or similar age as me

* You love eating pussy at least as much as I do (I am bisexual), and understand that you cannot lick or suck too hard

*As far as race preference goes, it doesn’t matter, but your skin is lighter than mine… something about the contrast of my skin against yours on video.

*You are polite, and can be politely assertive. You also like to talk dirty (not degrading) when telling me what you want and what you are going to do to me.

*You have the decency to show me a full-body picture rather than assuming all I want to see is a close-up picture of a random dick (you all have one ).

*You are NOT going to “out” me in front of my friends or coworkers if you run into me in public.

*You are honest and not playing games. If we decide to meet, you will show up.

*You want to fuck me til I am begging for more and until I neither of us has anything left.


Just want to make it clear. I have a deep desire for other women, nothing I wont do for her. Nothing I wont let her husband do to me if SHE wants him to. NOTHING especially while I am face down between her legs
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I want to get laid. Do you?
Posted:Jul 16, 2017 10:32 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2018 9:30 pm
Getting laid "tonight" was never my intention when I joined this site. I like to get to know somebody 1st. The time it takes to get comfortable that this potential playmate meets my standards and needs, takes time. It might be a couple of days, it may take weeks or months, depending on how open you are to my requests. Plus I only have one certain day of the week that I am open for extra fun. Family, friends, work, etc. all need to come first, and I need a potential partner to be empathetic about that.

It is true that the ratio of men to women on this site is way in favor of women, but that does not mean I am going out to find out how much I can get. Do you really want to be with a woman who is getting laid by a different man every night? My average is once every two years. Seems that most men on this site just want some quickie hump-n-run that I am absolutely not interested in. Just as you do not want to be with a woman who sleeps with everybody, I do not want a man who would have sex with just anybody. If I chose to have sex with you, it is going to be a long, sensual, passionate, mutually satisfying time. I am going after everything, and I am giving you my entire body, not just a hole.

Now, to be clear; if I emailed you more than once, I am interested in getting to know you. How do I get to know you if all you do is send me a picture of your dick? How do I get to know you if when I ask “what do you like” and your answer is simply “anything” or “I like to fuck” (you would be amazed at the shallow emails us girls get—yes, we talk). Why, when I ask for a full-body nude, I get a pic with a dick in the foreground? How difficult is it to take off your shirt, drop you pants, stand in front of a mirror and snap a pic with your cell phone. There are plenty of aps that can edit out your tattoos and your face to protect your identity. If we had sex, I’m going to see it all anyway; I am going to be in full-body contact with you, probably in several positions. So why is it so hard to show me what I am going to be getting, rather than just a dick? How embarrassed will you be when we meet and I say “no thanks”?

I go through a whole lot of preparing for a play date; more make up than usual, FOR YOU. I scrub and clean my entire body thoroughly FOR YOU. I apply body oils to make my skin soft and silky FOR YOU. I dress seductively and enticing (and a bit slutty) FOR YOU. The entire regiment that I go through before I meet you, is FOR YOU. I prepare my mind and every inch of my body for the sole purpose of enticing you to peel off my clothes and ravish me. All the while, I am running thoughts through my head of all the depravity we are going to be doing to each other. I am as nervous as you are, maybe more. Why would you put such extreme pressure on me just to have to reject you when we actually meet; simply because you would not share a good pic of yourself or let me get to know you?

If I am trying to get to know you, I am trying to decide if I am going to have sex with you. I am not here for endless emails, nor am I here to lead guys on just for kicks (I think some girls are). I want to have sex. If I feel that you are being cryptic or secretive, that you are sending pics at weird angles or extreme close-ups to mislead me; if I feel that all you want is a hole to put your dick into because you won’t or cannot tell me what you like, then why would I want to hook-up with you?

IF I lower my standards (and I won't); IF I was open to running out the door to meat anyone who wants "right now"; IF my life revolved around getting quantity rather than quality, then I guess there would be a new career in my future. But no. That is not me, and never will be.

Please don’t ask me to be something I am not. I am going to give you my body. I am going to let you ravish me. I am going to taste you, and you me. I am going to look you in the eye as you feel my flesh tighten around yours. Relish in the idea that you are one of the few. I will do all I can to make you remember my passion.

Posted:Mar 4, 2018 8:04 am
Last Updated:Mar 6, 2018 5:14 pm

Been years since I have had sex. At least anything beyond vanilla. Sure, I frequently give head to my husband but because of back injuries, that's pretty much where it stops (not to mention, it does give me a lot of practice). But I lack the intensity that I used to enjoy. It's become less of something I enjoy, but is becoming more of a NEED.

I miss large hands roaming my body, squeezing my breasts, rubbing my thighs and fondling my butt.

I miss having my nipples roughly sucked as if he/she is starving.

I miss having my clit roughly rubbed and passionately licked and sucked.

I miss having my butt probed while he/she is dining on my pussy. (oooh, I miss those intense orgasms)

I miss the feeling of straddling a guys lap, feeling his cock stretch my underworked pussy.

I miss feeling his hands rub, squeeze, and slap my ass while I ride him

I miss the taste of my juices on his cock when he forces me to my knees to devour his cock.

I miss the feeling and sounds as he slaps his cock all over my face and against my tongue

I want my ass seduced. I want to feel him rub, bite and spank it after he has taken my mouth and pussy. I want to feel him pressed against my back while his hands fondle my breasts and clit. I want to feel my body heat rise as he whispers what he is going to do to me. I want to feel his cock in my hand as I guide him in. I want to feel that sting as he pushes into me. I NEED the intense orgasms I get from him roughly rubbing my clit as he gently pushes himself between my cheeks. I want...

OMG, I miss intensity; I NEED intensity
Posted:Dec 7, 2017 4:38 pm
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2018 8:05 am
I am going to throw this in at the beginning, because I think it's key in MY hunt: When I ask what YOU like or want or what YOU want to do it is because I honestly want to do something we both like, and gives me a goal to work toward (even if I have to guide it).

So most of you guys make it so hard for us women to want to meet you. Thing is, I am actually of those who wants to meet some FOR SEX. Yeah, that's right, and to put it in the terms I see most guys put it on here: I want to fuck... In actuality, all women like to get laid. So why aren't you successful here? Well, it's because most of you offer EXACTLY the same thing. If I all we wanted was a quickie, then all we need to do is spend 5 minutes in a bar and just tell some "let's go" and he would. Fact is we want more than penetrated. I am putting up thes links to other's blogs to maybe get you in the right direction. WE want you to be successful, because WE want to get laid too. So, read these blogs. THEN COME AT US.

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Keeping it Discrete
Posted:Nov 9, 2017 8:16 pm
Last Updated:Feb 26, 2018 6:50 am

I think it is a given assumption that if you hook up with someone from here, that you will keep it private.

Recently, I had a VERY short hook-up with an extremely attractive guy several months ago, who I will call... Will;. I say short because the foreplay was good enough that he couldn't get it up again for penetration after, so had to resort to toys.

Now I work with a lot of people in a very professional environment. My coworkers know me as a friendly, church-going, goody-two-shoes. EVERYBODY in my organization knows my husband, as he has probably inspected every department in my organization.

So Will hand a need to use the organization where I work and ran into me doing my job. Okay, fine. Be cool. But no, not Will. He blurts out, loud enough for everyone adjacent to my workspace, to include my supervisor: "Hey, when can we get together, I need another blowjob". O-M-G!!!!!

What the hell are people thinking? Even if I were single. Even if I came to work everyday looking and acting like a slut, THIS WOULD STILL NOT BE OKAY. Could he now just slip me a note with his new phone# and keep it quiet?

Luckily my supervisor thought it was a case of sexual harassment and pulled him aside and assigned Will to a different facility for this type of visit, along with a warning that I could ruin Will's career after that if I so wanted to (member of the military sexually harassing a military civilian is B-A-D).

I was tempted to have my husband to publish the video (he was there) publicly somehow, with Will moaning like a bitch when I made him cum all over himself rather than take it in my mouth. But no. Even with this much disrespect he showed toward me, I cannot do such a thing. But will never let him back into my bed; EVER again, because of this.

So guys, first and foremost, be a gentleman. Have some class. Respect peoples right to privacy. We are not whores. Most of us have careers. Many of us have families.

So, if someone I am potentially going to date reads this (It would be a miracle), here's my rules, and if you cannot comply... we are NOT happening.

* If you know me somehow when we meet... you are here too.

* If we hook up, does not mean if we run into each other somewhere, there is any obligation to acknowledge you.

* I expect that if we do run into each other, there will be no smirks, winks, flirts or any other contact beyond "hi".

* If you want another date with me, email me here (or the alt email I give you). DO NOT ask me for a date in person, especially in public.

* DO NOT ask me if I can talk to you in private. There will never be anything one on one, or in private between us except over the phone, and DEFINATELY NOT while I am at work.

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