Hello Reader, My name is Michael. You know that guy who was quiet all through school and looking out the window dreaming? That is me, combined with the who was kind of a "Know it all" with good grades. Yes, I am soft spoken, but also a good conversationalist if the topic is of my knowledge; Otherwise I am a great listener. I like to get a feel for the atmosphere and match the energy in the room. That is not to say I won't be one of the first to start the activities if need be. Now, what am I as a Lover? I am young, so I am lacking in the "Love making" part of sex, but make up for it not only in stamina and willingness; but in sensual foreplay. I like to tease and make quips and innuendos to help liven the mood and make people laugh. But once we start getting into it, I am a rough lover, Spanking, chocking, gripping, hair pulling, you name it! I love being in control and once given power will unleash a sexy Dominant side that you won't see in many men. In that moment, you may as well clear the rest of the day, seeing as I will recover fast, fuck hard and go about 6-7 times before needing an extended rest period. Though that time can be used proactively if toys are involved, I love using toys and should you become a regular, (# meetings or more) I usually buy a toy for you. Can I put my money where my mouth is? Possibly, but you won't ever know unless you take me out for a spin. By all means feel free to ask me any questions you deem necessary to better understand my character. but to help you out, let me say a few more things about myself: I was in the Army National Guard and gave it 7 wonderful years till I was discharged Honorably as my contract had expired. I felt I wanted to try out civilian life and maybe get myself more out there. I have retained some of the work out regime and the short professional haircut. I am always freshly showered and manscaped for your aesthetic pleasure. Perally I enjoy giving to people, for instance; I went to Hawaii during Tropic Care 2013 and assisted to more scarce locals with by performing medical check ups on them. As well as, renovating schools and homes to help the town attract more tourism. I hope the above was a good read, I am usually available weekends as I too have to work on "Work days". Though I am usually flexible after 5pm EST should any arrangements be made prior than two days earlier.

My Ideal Person Alright, here is where I will put what I'm looking for in an "Ideal situation". Note that these by no means should discourage you from messaging me if you do not match said archetype, they are there to give you insight to my own personal search. Now let us begin:

MALES
I am starting with you single guys because I expect the majority of my messages to be populated of you all. I am looking for particular tastes in Males they are as follows:

1) Sexy Dad types with their own place, and or family. (I'm not a home wrecker but will still accept discretion as long as your spousal issues are kept to yourself.

2) Geeky or Nerdy guys around my age. These are guys who I can see going to high school with and being best friends with.

3) Subs, Sissys, Feminine males. Age is an issue here as I prefer closer to mine. But exceptions can be made if you can host, have toys or are a combination of any of the above. (Or as Barney Stinson says, :Unless s/he's Hot".)

Now, I am mostly a TOP. I very rarely bottom but am not opposed to it, I just rather be the Dominant one or one of the Dom's in the room. Yes I do group play and have had plenty of fun doing it. Also, I can some times host in Hotel Rooms if you are particularly intriguing.

Women

Ladies, I have a special place in my heart for the redheaded 90's kid girl next door type. The kind that grew up in a similar fashion that I did liking all the games, music and movies I did growing up. That said, here are some of the most attractive personalities:

1) Tomboy. Yes, I want the rough and tumble gal since I did live in Texas for a while and they grow them tough out there. But the twist here, I want them to have a soft and sensitive side to them that I can care for and treat them tenderly as a lover. (Not to say I won't become a bucking bronco if asked to go "Harder")

2) Quiet/Shy, Introvert. All guys love this type of girl and I am no different...or am I? Yes these types make the man feel like a "Man" but I want this kind to also have a wild and kinky side to her that even makes her dominant in some situations.

3) The Dominant Extrovert. Now, this kind isn't what you think I want. She is more of my Dominant friend that we some times have sex together, but more so get off humiliating and Dominating a sub together. (Male or Female). I want her and I to get along like two dominant peas in a pod...some times at each other's throats, but the Sub gets all the sweet abuse.

4) The Submissive. Yes, this one is a given. Though I prefer this type for long term as I also have friends I would like to share her with once we have established a certain level of trust. I know I can't just make you do things, I want to build your trust in my Dominance as I bring you more and more out of your shell and embracing your sexuality as a Sub.

Over all, I prefer a strong personality one that is fun and never boring. Keep me intrigued and you will have the best time with me. Promise.

COUPLES

Needless to say, I would Like a couple that is a mix of the Single archetypes I mentioned above. Though I know every person is unique and as I would be the 3rd party, my expectations should be more general guidelines. I ask that you just be open about the Dynamic, I have no real "types" that I like, except the open minded and excited.

Transexuals

First and foremost I must remind you that I am a TOP. Not to say I wouldn't mind a power bottom, never actually met one, so it is like the unicorn of partners.. But, I love FtM's you guys are my thing, and it is always exciting to get together with you. I have yet to be with a MtF as of yet, but not with out the lack of trying.
To you both, I only ask that you be clean and possibly one of the above archetypes helps alot. Not to say I won't pass any of you down.

Those are my "Ideal" people. Again, don't be discouraged if you aren't a type mentioned. I enjoy a wide variety of people and these just happen to be my favorite. In a perfect world these would be ongoing meetings and possibly, some thing that evolves into.. well, who knows?

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
30 seconds to mars, Theory of a Deadman, RED, Aerosmith, Joe Satriani, Bon Jovi, White Snake.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage, Hard and Rough Play.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Hailey Williams, the lead singer of paramore. I love redheads.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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