I am a 30 y/o bm. I am a college grad. I work for a hotel chain here in Arlington. I had to move to Texas and start over again with my Parents and Little Brother after Katrina. I have been in the lifestyle for almost 8 years. I like the lifestyle because it gives me an opportunity to connect with people on so many deeper levels than just your regular casual friendship or acquaintance. It really allows you to explore the sensual side of people and find a common connection. Of course the lifestyle isn't all about sex, however sex does play a large role in it. I am not pushy or play games with people. I have learned not to expect anything to happen and be pleasantly surprised when something does happen. When it comes to relationships I have not gone looking for one, but I hope one day to find that special girl who shares some of my passions and and help me discover new ones. But I am in no rush, life is good and I like to enjoy every moment to its fullest. My experiences have been amazing and I hope to have many more. Maybe share a few with you....... On a side note. I am a realist to a certain degree I know that I am in a sea of single males in the lifestyle. But I feel that I truly offer something unique and special that most other guys don't. Don't ask me to define it exactly, because those who get to know me tend to define it for themselves. I am a short story writer too, If you would like to read some of my work just ask. Thanks once again.

My Ideal Person I seek a person(s) who are into erotic play with black males. They want to have a good time, love playing by candle light, in a jacuzzi, and are into all kinds of freaky activity. As I said before I have no problem with relationships, but I don't go looking for them. I figure when I meet the right person we both shall know. Until then lets just have some fun. I want someone who is adventurous and can show me something new and exciting and perhaps I can do the same.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Jimi Hendrix, Tool, Perfect Circle, Acid Bath, Audio Slave,
Queens of the Stone Age, Marylin Manson

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
A massive orgy in a huge room ib a gigantic bed that takes
up the entire room. Lit by candles with a variety of music
playing. All participants are oil down in sweet smelling
oils. A massive writhing orgy that does not stop for hours.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Role Playing, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I fantasize about having sex with Gwen Staffani. I imagine
her singing to me and giving me a lap dance before thing start
to get really hot. The fantasy begins to blur into images
of dark and light skin contorting and writhing......thing
being sucked, pumped, licked, tickled, teased, slaped,
lightly bitten, scatched, ect. All of this takes place
in an old gothic style plantation bedroom with high ceilings
in a very big comfortable bed. In the middle of a hurricane
with the wind wipping through the room.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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