Hi, and thanks for taking a look at our profile! First, let us tell you a little bit about ourselves. We're a happily married couple that has been together more than ten years. We both have professional jobs, own our own home, and have a young living with us full time. Due to the nature of our jobs, and family in the area, we're careful about showing pictures of our faces until we've talked with people a little bit first. Once we've established that we don't work together (or heaven forbid are related!) we're happy to show you our smiling faces. If that's a deal breaker for you we respect that. We are very secure in our relationship, and have been comfortably and enthusiastically sharing our sexual adventures with like-minded friends for a few years now. We're not doing this to make up for any deficiency in our sex life; we genuinely enjoy sex as an extension of friendship. We don't usually jump into bed with people on the first date, but it has been known to happen from time to time when the chemistry is too strong to ignore. More often we like to get to know people a bit to make sure there is a real interest there. Let's face it – finding people to hop in the sack with is not exactly hard; finding people that you'd enjoy spending time with fully clothed can be more of a challenge. To put it another way, we're not real hip on sharing our bodies with people that we can't share dinner or a decent conversation with. The female have of this duo is bisexual. She’s not bi-curious or bi-passive; she knows that's an itch she enjoys scratching as often as the opportunity presents itself. She's dated both men and women before we met, and absolutely adores quality time spent naked and slippery with other women. If the female half of your pair is genuinely bi-curious that can be sexy and fun. If she's bi-passive we'll probably not venture down that path. While it's fun to be a teacher at times, if the experience is completely one-sided it gets real old real fast. So why are we here? Same as you we're guessing. We're looking for other bright, adventurous, and outgoing people for sexy fun. We are not hard on the eyes but we're hardly perfect, so no need to worry if you're not a super-model yourself. Bisexual women and couples with bisexual women are especially encouraged to contact us. This is an adventure we're sharing with and for each other, so it probably won't come as a surprise that we only play together, and almost always in the same room. We're not looking for something lacking in our partner, we're just excited by the opportunities that three or more people intent on helping each other cum as hard and often as possible can create. And, hell, it turns us both on to no end to watch our partner in ecstasy. It’s even better if we've had a hand in the process… so to speak.

My Ideal Person Neither of us smokes cigarettes, so non-tobacco users are strongly preferred. We've been known to have a cocktail or two (well… maybe three), and enjoy a wide variety of interests. We're comfortable in just about any setting from fine dining and theater to karaoke and shooting pool, from pinot noir and edam to tequila and Buffalo wings – and just about everything in between. We're both avid readers, enjoy the outdoors (camping with friends is the best!), and spend as much time as we can at the Oregon coast. The specific activity isn't nearly as important to us as the company we're keeping.

We've been around the Portland Lifestyle scene for a few years now, so let us be very direct and up-front by saying that few things turn us off more or make us run for the hills faster than drama of any kind. Whether it is relationship stuff (hint: sex with other people will not fix your relationship problems – it will magnify them if they already exist in any form), or a holier-than-thou attitude towards people whose swinging approach doesn't match yours 100% we simply don't have any time for it. To our way of thinking the very nature of what we do is so vastly different than the way the majority of people operate that divisiveness or hostility towards other people or groups just doesn't make a whole lot of sense to us. We're here to have fun with other kindred spirits, not to make ourselves feel superior by putting others down. Different doesn't mean wrong in our book, it's just 'different' and perhaps not for us.

If you've made it this far and we haven't managed to scare you off, WONDERFUL we'd love to hear from you! We're on Fuckspace.com - Sex Dating / Swinger Community quite a bit, and respond to all emails. We'd love to chat and explore the possibilities!

"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."

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