I've been on this site for awhile and I find that my profile does not really capture all my different moods -- but I will give it a try. There are times when what I am looking for is just immediate, raw, must-have it now sex. Don't really need or intend for anything to be complicated. On the other hand there is nothing more that gives me pleasure than knowing I am giving someone else pleasure. It makes me hot just to hear the moans.... A one-time interlude can be fun, yet, I know that if someone really wants to experience what it means to achieve a truely erotic adventure it takes sharing -- wants, pleasures, fantasies, experimenting, open minded conversation. Some might call it a "fuck-buddy" but it is more than that-- it is knowing what each other enjoys, where they like to be touched, for how long, how soft, fast, hard... all wrapped up with the unexpected, sometimes humorous, spontaneous, and a healthy letting-yourself-go attitude. You can't get there with a one- night stand or when your partner is thinking to get quick release for themself. So, sometimes I want something more long-term yet if it doesn't work that's OK. I am very successful in my profession but the price I pay is time.... sometimes I just don't have the ability to go out and play or give someone as much attention as I would like. Sometimes I just need sex on the run... I consider myself to be physically in decent shape. I bike, kayak, enjoy outdoors. I enjoy intelligent conversation (but I am not talkative)and I think humor is a sign of intelligence. Music is playing in my house at all times.[COLOR blue][/COLOR][SIZE 7][/SIZE][B][/B][COLOR blue][/COLOR]

My Ideal Person I am looking for someone who is willing to experiment, clean, has a healthy attitude, and is discreet. A BIG plus would be to find someone who is fun, open-minded, in-shape, that lives fairly close and is looking for a trusting guy to experience new things in a safe environment.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Spanking, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies"

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