To know me is to run like hell......either to me or away from me lmao .....I'm here to create havock and stimulate my mind if possible on a damn sex site.......i know there ARE some intelligent people who like sex.....now where are they?[B][/B]

My Ideal Person Intelligent........which DOES mean you know how to spell and can actually correct me on my spelling errors lol.......open minded and non judgemental....we all deserve to start off without judgements don't we? Open to exploring different things and open to helping broaden my collection of interests by sharing yours.

A romantic and one who doesn't mind a romantic in return.......open to public displays of affection......wow.....did i just say that? I was starting to think that was taboo in our day and age......but to hell with that.....im old enough to not care what others think.......i need someone else who is as well.

Friends....oh to start off as friends....this is such a wonderful start...don't you agree?

Laura

Why must life hurt? Why must those who love generously, live honourable, feel deeply. All that is good and beautiful be so hurt while selfish creatures go unscathed?That is why, because they can feel. Hurt is the price to pay for feeling.

Pain is not accident, nor punishment, nor mockery. By some savage God, pain is part of growth. The more we grow, the more we feel, the more we feel, the more we suffer. For if we are able to feel beauty, we must also feel the lack of it.

And so since hurt is the price of larger living, I will not hate pain nor try to escape it. Instead I will try to meet it, bravely bear it proudly. Not as a cross of misfortune, but an opportunity, a privillage, a challenge to a better life.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I meet you in a hotel room. You have talked to me about trust and wanted me to prove to you that I trust you completely, that I will unquestionably let you take my life in your hands and trust that you will treat it with respect and love. You ask that I blindfold myself when I am in the room and wait for you on the bed. I do this with one request, that you do the same before you enter the room. You and I have never met and the thought of this ultimate trust between two people as we touch and smell and taste each other envelopes my senses as I sit on the side of the bed and feel this intense uncertainty mixed with arousal, realizing that you could walk through that door and do anything to me and I wouldn't be aware of it until it was too late. I know that to trust you completely in this is to leave my life in your hands, as you are doing with me. The anticipation is intense as I wait for you to come through the door.
I hear the door open and close and then hear you taking your coat and shoes off. I ask if it is you and you acknowledge me with a simple "yes". I hear you slowly making your way to me as you are also blindfolded and have lost the sense of sight. I feel you touch the bed and silently wait for you to find me. I feel your hands touch my thigh and I jump, as though you were burning me with your hands. You softly speak to me and tell me you won't hurt me, that you want to make love to me and that you want me to trust you. I agree. You run your hands up my body, slowly, softly, and find my face. You touch my face, running your fingers over my eyes and nose and lips. I feel as though I am being burned with the heat of your fingers and I start to moan. I reach up and touch your chest as you stand between my legs. I love the feel of you. I knew it would be like this. I knew you would be like this. You are gentle, yet strong and determined in your movements and you won't let me become uncertain. You seem to sense when I am afraid and whisper in my ear that you won't hurt me, that you want me, that you have wanted me since you met me. I reach up and pull your head down to mine. I crave your mouth on mine; have waited so long to taste you. I want you to kiss me. I touch my lips to yours and run my tongue along your lips. You slightly open your mouth and accept me in. I feel your tongue entwine with mine and I almost feel as though I am coming undone. I moan against your mouth as you run your hands down my body. You kneel down in front of me and continue to kiss me as you touch and explore my curves and crevasses, learning me in a most intimate way. No sight, just touch and sound and smell. hmmmmmmm I reach down and pull your shirt up over your head. I want to feel the touch of your skin on my fingertips. My urgency is apparent in the way I rake my nails over your back. not enough to break the skin, but a possessive taking of what is mine. I hear your breathing change and this excites me further.
Your hands are starting to move roughly over me, as though you can't stand to feel my clothing and need to remove this obstacle from your path. You roughly pull my sweater over my head and discover that I am not wearing a bra. You moan with pleasure as your head dips to my breast and you take my nipple into your mouth, feeling it become harder as you play with your tongue and your mouth. I push myself to you as I feel the overwhelming sense of arousal envelope me. I feel myself become suddenly very wet and know you can smell my sex as you become more urgent with your hands and your mouth. You lay me back on the bed and raise yourself above me. I sense that you are removing the rest of your clothing. I know you can't see me and know that we have never laid eyes on one another and the thought of making love to you before seeing you is almost my undoing. You reach down, untie my skirt and pull it from me. I am barely conscious of you doing this as I moan and let my hands wander down my body. I need release, need it so badly that I am touching my body as I do when we have experienced this over the phone. I feel you remove my panties and my hand immediately drops down to touch myself. I feel your hands on my body and feel you run your hand down my arm until you feel my fingertips that are playing with my clit. Your breath gasps as you realize just how aroused and how wet I am and a groan escapes from your mouth as your mouth finds mine. I begin to beg you to take me, I want you, and I need you. please make love to me!!! You calm yourself and tell me that this is only the beginning, to take our time, to feel the sensations, that you want to taste me first. Your mouth begins this slow torturous journey down my body. You stop at my breasts and taste and play with my nipples as your fingers entwine with mine and move inside my love. I feel this as though you are penetrating me and I almost reach climax as we kiss and play. You sense this and back off, taking my hand with yours, you pin both my hands above my head to the bed. I am writhing under your mouth, aching for you, wanting you, needing you. I feel your mouth move further down my body, stopping just above my pubic area. I feel your hot breath on me and I want to raise myself up to your mouth. God, how I crave your mouth on my clit. I need your tongue and your teeth and your lips to make me feel complete. plsssssssss, I say, I need this plssssssssss. You blow on my pussy and I begin to softly scream. I can't stand this. Pure ecstasy. Pure agony. Such contradictions in such a profound way. I hold my breath and try to lay still. Waiting for your mouth to claim me, make me yours. I feel you softly touch my pussy with your mouth and I let my breath out as though gasping for air. hmmmmmmmm Home, I feel I have come home. thank godddddddd I relax and leave my hands above my head as I let my emotions and my senses experience your hands, your body and your mouth. I love the smell of you as you move your mouth over me. I feel your tongue touch me and move between me to search for my clit. I throw my head back and arch my back to you as you claim me. I feel you begin to suck and pull at my clit and gently bite me as I arch against you. Your hands are playing with my breasts and the sensations are driving me close to orgasm. You know I am close and move your hands under my body and lift me up to your mouth as you feel me begin to disappear into my climax. The sense of ecstasy is almost agony as I try to back off from your mouth. The touch of your mouth on my clit is sending me to places I haven't felt in such a long time and I feel overwhelmed. The agony I feel is such bliss. I hear myself screaming as though from a far way off. I can't hear. I can't see, I can't touch. my sense of smell is dulled. I am disappearing!!! You continue to hold me with your mouth as I writhe under you. Hold me till you sense that I am relaxing, melting, melding to your mouth. You hear me gasp, my breathing urgent and rapid, until I catch my breath and sigh. This is where I want to be and I say this as we lay there together.................

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A movie theatre

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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