I am a fun, energetic, down to earth type guy. Of course I love that toe curling, knee locking, back arching sex...but I also like to have a social connection as well. That said, I am not looking to date but will say if the chemistry is there...never know where it will go. But regardless of that, I also know some ladies want to still be treated as such and value their ability to size a guy up over drinks or a dinner. I get that. So as long as you are honest with me about your intent I will be honest with you about mine. I have been in this lifestyle for many years now and know the social etiquette and how best to nurture a new connection along. This is suppose to be fun and enjoyable for both. If it is not...you are failing to get the point of all this.... Lastly, be honest... By that I mean if you know in your head that a meeting will likely never happen...be honest about it. Nothing more disappointing than to spend days on end talking to someone who never seems to be available or never seems to try and become available... I get that life happens and we all have busy schedules but as a single father, business owner, community volunteer...I still find adequate time to be social and to do that out and about with someone who interests me...

My Ideal Person Funny, sexually confident, respectful. I am open to all races though I must confess I have been mostly dating outside my race for the past 15 years or so. That said, if you are a beautiful woman of color, you ma'am should drop me a line... ;o)