What matters most to me is who the woman is, and I have an open mind most of the time. Stimulate my mind, and the rest comes naturally. I do enjoy the casual intimacy of domestic voyeurism whether accompanied or not as long as the woman has no problem with even more of a plutonic form of this intimacy and openness as just buddies at first. I'm more of a landscape type photographer, but I have had female friends and acquaintances who are professional, international models or were models. A few are also mothers or businesswomen with each of them being down-to-earth. I hate negative stereotypes and slurs based upon pure ignorance or whatever. A woman from Oklahoma who can both appreciate a man capable of appreciating everything a woman has to offer, beginning with intelligence, would be great. Age isn't an issue although I prefer at least 24 years old. Due to years of hostilities spewed by disgruntled BBW together with slurs, the decades-long negative experiences to include made against myself creates a very difficult negative prejudice for me to overcome. Stimulate my mind, and I'll probably appreciate the whole woman and gain pleasure in noticing all of who she is. Little pleases me more than seeking to please and pleasure her whether slow and soothing at a comfortable pace or intense. Relax and enjoy yourself since I'm not interested in one-night stands or whatever. Friendship is great.

My Ideal Person Her "own woman" who perceives her own beauty coming from within her being although I also notice physical beauty as a form of self-expression, self-reflection, or self-perception much like how a woman chooses to wear cosmetics, style her hair, and allows her clothes to represent her.

The woman understands that allowing me to either provide her with a nice, long, soothing, hot bubble bath and help her relax is another form of intimacy to me. Showers can be an excellent way to talk along with another great activity.

That's a start for what "friends with benefits" can also include.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I'll come back to this one, or ask.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Fetishes, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage, Mutual masturbation, Giving woman a bubble bath or shower

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I'll come back to this one.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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